Saturday, June 5, 2010

You are You







I have attended 2 days workshop n i learn a lot of skill and activities that can be used in the class^^

meaningful session:

The Important Things

The important things about you is
that you are you,
it is true that you were a baby,
and you grew,
and now you are a child,
and you will grow,
into a man,
or into a woman
But the important things about
you is that
YOU ARE YOU.

we cannot copy anyone, coz you r you.

-just wana share-

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

成年.了 ?

外面的世界。。。

做工的生涯了。。

我现在在hometown,因为有一星期的假期。我回家了,真的回家了,觉得这才是我的家,我不变的爸妈妹伯。。 他们不会骗我,只会永远为我好。

现在,我心里有个画面:我虽然身在sp,但我必须回到kl去工作,我感觉到我的肩膀凉凉的,仿佛是我一个人上战场,去面对生活的困境,去组织以后的生活,这都是一个人的决定和选择了。

开始觉得自己慢慢成为成人了。成人该承担的事-事业,爱情,marriage, 家庭。

真的是不能再时时靠父母了,也觉得他们很伟大,可以安安稳稳的支持一个家。但我想,当我们到了那年级,我们自然也拥有这些能力了。能力是日月累积的。

我也慢慢悟了,也许我得重新找过我的生活活动了,生活的价值,工作的价值观。曾经交过的朋友们,有些可以在继续连络,有些越来越少联络,真的是无常啊。我也不必太执著,因为世上改变是不变的。我珍惜过了当下,这就是永恒了。在前面,我还会遇到许许多多的朋友以及老师们,不断的学习,不断的成长。我还很年轻!

当然,寂寞和孤独感也特别深。我听得很清楚。有些位置是非情人莫属的。 这感觉的好处是,它让我更懂得在未来如何去把握和珍惜和爱人在一起的时间,如何去陪伴一个人,原来是这么一回事。^^

只需一撇一捺,互相扶持,才能成为人字。
别太倔强的说:我很强,我自己可以做到!
有时要懂得借力,借身边朋友的力,去办事。同样的,当你脆弱时,你是需要身边有个人去聆听你的脆弱。这无损你的价值。

慢慢的计划吧!

朋友们,我也要和你们保持连咯,你们也多多留言吧!

Tuesday, May 18, 2010

无奈的过渡期。






难道这是过渡期?

我真得无法适应叻,发生了什么事?

我真的不开心,少了笑容。

因为,我少了可以哈哈大笑的朋友!他们都不在我身边了。真的,寂寞孤独侵蚀了我。虽然说爱自己,但人还是需要人的。我也不列外。我是极度需要朋友的人。也许,每个人都是酱。

和姐妹LWK谈了,他也是跟我一样。我们都很想念过去。

原来,适应,需要一些时间, 原来,过程,需要去体验。

我现在是会很想念过去的时光,一起吃晚餐,一起废,一起分享,一起打闹!

大脑告诉我:你忘了吗,世上没有一件事是永恒的。都会经过改变。

内心说:我不想要听这些啦。。 我只希望你聆听我的声音,了解我,那么我就感觉被爱了。

我也没有什么能量去给朋友,去帮他们。我也需要。

难道在职场上真的那么难寻好友吗?真的有像别人所说的那么负面吗?我不懂。

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

IP MAN 2



今天很开心,很期待那放工过后去看戏的感觉。我和CHRIS两人浩浩荡荡去了WANGSA WALK 的戏院。我们第一次去这戏院,那戏院真的还不赖!

这部戏真得很棒,他启发了我的兴趣去看一看中国艺术的内涵和修养。这是我最深的感触。也真的从心敬佩维护中国文化的精神和毅力。也许我最近在工作上也面对了很多不一样的遭遇,所以对这部戏特别有感觉,看着叶问的忠直和支持公道的毅力与坚持,这是很不容易的。真的不是每个人懂得公平和尊重别人,EVEN YOUR BOSS。

人的地位,可以有高低之分;但,人格是没有贵贱之分。”

THUMBS UP !

Wednesday, May 5, 2010

Finally i pick it up ........




"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" I have seen this book in the market for many times when i went to bookstores, but i still didt pick it up n read... aha, today i jz pick it up in the library n read it from the front page onwards, it attracts my attention and desire to read it all, but so sad, we only can borrow book next week.. it talks about "perception".... n i need it now to filter my thinking n mood! it comes to the right time! that's y i always follow my heart when i search for book to read...... it is same like u follow ur heart to choose which flavor of ice-cream u want^^ that's amazing!

then i saw this cute girl! oh my! she is just too cute!!! she always smile!

besides her, there are lots of small kids in the library r picking up the book n read, some r just chit-chat wit their fren, some r just running here n there then at last they will be scolded by librarian, haha! their action are just so cute n amazing for me.... i feel happy n relax when watching them...

Friday, April 30, 2010

Sport Day ^^













hey hey, today is our school sport day!

all of us wake up n depart on 630am by bus to stadium.

there are four houses which are Naptune, Venus, Mars and Jupiter!
since i m new teacher, so currently i m HOUSELESS! haha! so i jz be the broucher lady! haha i giv broucher to parents n vip....

After the giving prize ceremony, me, Chris, Ms Aai and Mr. Sandip are going to have our lunch at 咖啡馆!we have a nice talk and sharing there!

so i m happy today! haha! hav a blast day!

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Outing








saturday nite, we r going to celebrate pakcik a.k.a kian giap bday secreatly @ TGI FRIDAY, the Curve.

I m anticipating it as i m able to meet my dear frenss n chit chat!